4 Mistakes of nice guy that can make your girlfriend leave you!
Bro, maybe you ever hear, or even had experience about man that looks perfect, romantic, really love his girl, loyal but ends up being cheated of his girlfriend with the bad boy who in your opinion just want to take advantage of your girl, never cares with the girls at all? This is happens caused you does things that sound romantic but actually makes your girlfriend feel bad.
Here's the explanation,
The first thing, you feel like you can't live without your girlfriend. This is so fatal bro, don't let this be said in front of your girlfriend, if she already hear this sencence from your mouth she will automatically feel that you have completely owned. You've been conquered. And you have to know that girls is like a challenges. Girls like strong people that hard to be conquered. If you already conquered, at least she will have a mind to find the other man who more challenging. The most dangerous if you have the mindset that you feel like you can't live without him, you'll put him first, not yourself. As a result you'll difficult to grow, to busy about the shits about your girlfriend. Busy serving him, busy to makes she happy and forgot about your own happiness.
The second thing is you are there every time she need you. Always there to bring him anywhere, be her chatting friend everytime, always saying good morning, good night and so on. If this happends your girlfriend will thinking that you've been crazy, didn't have any job, doesn't have anything important in his life, but him. Finnaly she lost the respect of you. Girls is like a man that have a live purposes, and if a man have it they will focus, not too available for him, and not distracted by the things that didn't have relation with their puspose. Because is you too available for him, it will makes your relationship is bored, there's nothing mysteri, lost a special moment because you always next him everyday. Finnally she will feel too comfortable with you, and she feel that you better be her friend or friend zone.
The next thing is too obedient to your girlfriend. Do you know bro, girl is like to be led, want a man that can beat him. If you too obedient to your girlfriend the role is behind, the leader is your girlfriend not you. Wants to eat according to your girlfriend, wants to go you need to ask the permission from him. Ask opinion is not the big deal, but don't awlays listen what she said. You have to make decisions, especially on things that're principle.
The last but not least, too seroius about "Her Drama". Bro girls is like a drama, when she make it and you fall on it like on movies, you get cranky it's not cool bro. She will feel bad about you if you have more drama than him. She like drama because woman act based on their emotion, their feeling is more dominant, their hormones makes them emotional goes up and down drastically. Other while you are a man you have to be more logical, stay cool, don't respond their emotion with your emotion too. If she makes a drama, better just silent, leave him alone. Give time for him to thinking. If their mood is better, just make a dialog with him. Explain logically with a calm mind. If you join in their drama you will be treated like a girl who is not cool. But if you stay cool, girls will respect, she will see you as a leader, as a someone who can guide her in living life.
Keep going bro, and see you at the top.
Here's the explanation,
The first thing, you feel like you can't live without your girlfriend. This is so fatal bro, don't let this be said in front of your girlfriend, if she already hear this sencence from your mouth she will automatically feel that you have completely owned. You've been conquered. And you have to know that girls is like a challenges. Girls like strong people that hard to be conquered. If you already conquered, at least she will have a mind to find the other man who more challenging. The most dangerous if you have the mindset that you feel like you can't live without him, you'll put him first, not yourself. As a result you'll difficult to grow, to busy about the shits about your girlfriend. Busy serving him, busy to makes she happy and forgot about your own happiness.
The second thing is you are there every time she need you. Always there to bring him anywhere, be her chatting friend everytime, always saying good morning, good night and so on. If this happends your girlfriend will thinking that you've been crazy, didn't have any job, doesn't have anything important in his life, but him. Finnaly she lost the respect of you. Girls is like a man that have a live purposes, and if a man have it they will focus, not too available for him, and not distracted by the things that didn't have relation with their puspose. Because is you too available for him, it will makes your relationship is bored, there's nothing mysteri, lost a special moment because you always next him everyday. Finnally she will feel too comfortable with you, and she feel that you better be her friend or friend zone.
The next thing is too obedient to your girlfriend. Do you know bro, girl is like to be led, want a man that can beat him. If you too obedient to your girlfriend the role is behind, the leader is your girlfriend not you. Wants to eat according to your girlfriend, wants to go you need to ask the permission from him. Ask opinion is not the big deal, but don't awlays listen what she said. You have to make decisions, especially on things that're principle.
The last but not least, too seroius about "Her Drama". Bro girls is like a drama, when she make it and you fall on it like on movies, you get cranky it's not cool bro. She will feel bad about you if you have more drama than him. She like drama because woman act based on their emotion, their feeling is more dominant, their hormones makes them emotional goes up and down drastically. Other while you are a man you have to be more logical, stay cool, don't respond their emotion with your emotion too. If she makes a drama, better just silent, leave him alone. Give time for him to thinking. If their mood is better, just make a dialog with him. Explain logically with a calm mind. If you join in their drama you will be treated like a girl who is not cool. But if you stay cool, girls will respect, she will see you as a leader, as a someone who can guide her in living life.
Keep going bro, and see you at the top.
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